Friday, December 20, 2013

Striking A Balance



Christmas is in just a few days and I, like many people I’m sure, are not ready for it.  There are so many things to do: shopping for presents, cards to send, baking, decorating, etc.  There just doesn’t seem to be enough time to get everything done – and the pressure is on – self imposed pressure.

I’ve been reflecting on my experience of Christmas in mission and how different it was.  I was away from family and friends which was difficult.  I missed listening to Christmas Carols on the radio, decorating the Christmas tree, the Christmas specials on TV (we didn’t have TV), shops decorated and offering great bargains, etc.  It didn’t “feel” like Christmas. 

And while I missed all of that, I also received the gift of celebrating Christmas in Sierra Leone.  On Christmas Eve, the choir at Church had a mini “concert” before midnight Mass – and after not having heard any Christmas music the month prior, it was an extra joyous celebration.  After Mass, people would ride in the back of trucks banging pots and pans exclaiming Happy Christmas.  Then we all got up the next morning for Mass on Christmas Day. 

Gift giving was not common.  But I did usually find something small to give to the people I was close to.  And because there was no pressure to give, or expectation to receive, there was genuine joy in giving and gratitude in receiving.

I try not to romanticize Christmas in Sierra Leone – just like I had to learn not to romanticize Christmas back home when I was there.  There is an upside and downside to both.  But I am, at the 11th hour, trying to strike a balance between the two.

My hope and prayer is that those of us here at home, and our Lay Mission-Helpers who are in mission, will remember that the Spirit of Christmas can be alive no matter where we are – if we get out of the way.
Christmas Tree in Zimbabwe

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