Friday, April 1, 2016

Heart of the Matter




Tetralogy of Fallot. It sounds like the title of a fantasy novel series. 

Actually, it is a medical condition that causes oxygen-poor blood to flow out of the heart and into the rest of the body. You may recall this term from our last newsletter in which we described Lay Mission-Helper Alicia Adajar-Duante helping a young boy recover from the surgery which corrected his Tetralogy of Fallot condition. It was a success story.

Not all in life is success. This past week’s liturgical readings leading up to Easter were filled with stories of failure: the apostles failed to stay awake with Jesus, Judas failed to remain loyal to Jesus, Peter failed to stand by Jesus, and the list of failures goes on.

In the countries where our missioners serve, failure stories are in no short supply. They are bound to happen in resource-poor areas, where people totter on a thin line between life and death.   

Alicia just posted a blog of another case of Tetralogy of Fallot, this time not a success story. A four-year-old boy with this condition did not recover from his surgery, and Alicia was at his side as he lay dying. Alicia wrote that the doctor at one point suggested that someone turn on a radio near the boy’s ear as a way of stimulating his brain. She took up the call and played some recorded music for him. Eventually the boy’s small body could no longer resist his illness, and he died.

Last November when visiting Cameroon, I personally witnessed how Lay Mission-Helpers and our sister organization, Mission Doctors Association, are working hard to widen that thin line between life and death through the various ministries in which they are engaged. Yet the reality is that some do fall on the other side, and Alicia wrote how hard it is to witness the suffering when it happens.

But this week’s liturgical readings turn the “failure” stories on their heads. They assure us that in the eyes of faith, there is resurrection and hope for every story and situation gone wrong. Jesus Christ conquered death and it no longer has the final say. 

Although it is sometimes hard to hear through the cacophony of this world, the resurrection song is always playing there in the background, calling us home to love, understanding and compassion. Sometimes, what we need is for someone to turn up the volume a bit, as Alicia did for that boy . . . and as the boy does for us when we read his story. 

Thank you for your continued prayers and support, and know that all of our work joins with yours this Easter season as together we proclaim the risen Christ here and abroad. 

Faithfully,
Chad
 

Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Ash Wednesday


Mercy can take you by surprise.

The other day I was walking to the metro and thinking about an article I read on the Pope's Jubilee of Mercy.  I passed a woman on the corner of the street asking for money.  I was in a hurry, so I didn't want to take the time to dig into my backpack for loose change.  But she looked so sad, and the Pope’s reflections on mercy were in my head.  I returned, fished out a couple of quarters, gave them to her and went on my way.  A teenage boy, who must have seen this exchange, passed me by on his skateboard.  He stopped a few feet in front of me, got out his wallet, pulled out a dollar, turned around, went back to the woman and gave it to her.

I am embarrassed to confess that my silly ego made me first think, “Wow, my act of ‘mercy’ just got bested by a teenager.”  But then I got over myself and thought God is trying to teach me a lesson here.

Mercy engenders more mercy. 

When we see an act of mercy, it spontaneously warms our hearts.  We do the same act of mercy we witnessed, and often, even more.  If you have any doubt about the inspirational aspect of mercy, watch this commercial that a Thai insurance company produced and which went viral.

Today, as we begin our Lenten journey, the commercial’s final question remains:  What do you desire the most in your life?  This year, let us join the pope and respond, Mercy!  It just may be our most transformational Lent ever!

God bless you and all of our Lay Misison-Helpers serving around the world.



-Chad Ribordy